【每天英语】Howtomakefriendsasanadult

This is how to make friends as an adult.成年人如何交兄弟。

旧相识可以变成新兄弟。

The first step to make new friends is… don’t. Instead, reconnect with old friends.

结交新兄弟的第一步是……不找新的兄弟。相反，和老相识从头获得联络。

倾听，寻找一起点，一同道贺

Studies show being likable can be as easy as listening to people and asking them to tell you more.

And mountains of research show similarity is critical. So when they mention something you have in common, point it out.

Finally, celebrate the positive. When someone talks about the good things in their life, be enthusiastic and encouraging.

研讨标明，要讨人喜爱，就要学会倾听别人并让他们告诉你更多。其次，许多研讨标明，类似性至关重要。所以当别人说到和你的一起点时，请指出来。最终，道贺活泼的作业。当有人谈论到日子中的好作业时，要热心并表达鼓舞。

展示脆弱一面

Open up a bit. Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close

friends.

翻开心扉。亲近兄弟之间可以谈论自个疑问，而自个疑问的谈论也会带来亲近兄弟。

不要让兄弟变成陌生人。

First and foremost: make the time. You need to keep in touch.

首要也是最重要的：花时刻和兄弟共处。你们需要坚持联络。

组成交际集体

What’s the best way to make sure you’re in a group? Start one.

A weekly lunch. A monthly sewing circle. A quarterly movie night. Whatever works. Friends bring friends and suddenly it’s not so hard to meet cool new people.

啥是保证你现已在交际小集体里的最佳办法？组成一个。每周一次的午饭，每月一次的缝纫会，或许每季度的影片之夜，啥都行。兄弟会带来兄弟，俄然之间，知道很帅的新兄弟就不难了。